“Send me a pic of you naked.” says thousands of my requested Instagram DMs.
“I charge for that. Here are my rates.” I say back.
“But why?” They complain. “You probably already have some in your phone. It would be so easy to send them.”
“It would take the same amount of effort to not send one.” is the last thing I saw before I hit the block button.
My nudes aren’t free. I offer plenty of free content, but my nudes aren’t free.
People assume because I’m mostly naked on the internet, that I’ll be willing to be naked on the internet privately for their own entertainment for free. I show my body to my blog following and 17k+ combined social media audiences, so why oh why wouldn’t I welcome a message from a random man asking me to be naked exclusively for him?
It’s almost baffling the number of people (read cis men) who assume a semi-naked girl they don’t know will just hand over naked photos to them. People assume that when they see a person confidently showing off their body, it immediately makes that body accessible to them. This type of behaviour is reinforced by slut-shaming and rape culture, including the idea that the lack of clothes on a person’s body makes them responsible for any negative or illegal actions towards them. No one ever is entitled to touch, access, or even see, another person’s body.
Everyone has the right to wear as little or as much as they want. Whether that be online, or in real life, we all are allowed to determine the environments that people are allowed to see us in various states of dressage. For me, I’m comfortable wearing tight and short clothes when I’m out and about. I love my crop tops, short shorts and other small clothes. It’s what I feel most comfortable in, so that’s what I wear. Online, I’m mainly nearly-naked, using to push for body-positive and sex-positive messages. I’m also completely naked online, but only for those who I’m close with and for those to choose to pay me.
Charging for my nudes was hands down one of the most empowering things I’ve ever decided to do. Seeing money flow into my bank account, poured in by admirers who are willing to pay for my time makes me feel like royalty. I don’t remember the first time I charged someone for a naked photo, but the decision to start selling them came about by a follower asking if they could buy one from me. Why wouldn’t I make some money, if I was already taking the photos anyway, and sharing them in private?
As more “can I see you naked” requests grew with my following, I started being more assertive in my replies, telling people “yes, you totally can, for a price.” Not only did this approach cut the bullshit, but it also let people know that I was offering, which led to sales on my end. Letting people know that I wasn’t out to play allowed me to take back my power. It allowed me to shut up entitled people, and find respectful clients who were actually willing to pay for my time, energy and body.
I get to choose when and how I show my body to the world for free or for pay and I don’t owe my followers access to my body. And sex work has only but uplifted me to know my worth and stand my ground even more than I was doing before. Every other person on the planet, slut or not, has the right to their bodily autonomy. Respect that, and stop asking for free nudes.
If you’re interested in purchasing my content from me, here are places were you can pay me for my time:
I offer monthly services through the subscription site Patreon! I wrote a post about my offerings there before, but here’s an updated list:
First Base – $5 / month
On this tier you get access to a whole library of awesome nude photos and photo sets every month!
Second Base – $15 / month
On this tier you get access to my premium NSFW snapchat. I do weekly-ish masturbation shows on there, sometimes even with some guests. You also get access to one downloadable porn video a month, uploaded on the second Thursday of every month, and access to all the First Base photos.
Third Base – $35 / month
I have three different options for the third base tier rewards: skype with me (sfw), skype with me (nsfw) or three polaroids! They all get access to the $5 & $15 tiers. The tiers are seperate for their rewards, so make sure to sign up for the one you want!
If you ever wanted to text me or call me, this is the service for you! We can exchange pics, dirty texts or even have phone sex together through there! We can dive into any fantasy you’d like; I’ve already done some really sexy roleplay over the phone and am always looking for more. If you’re new to SextPanther, you get 5 free credits when you sign up, which you can use to text me with! My rates are on my profile, which is under my sex work name, Gwen Adora. Here’s the link to my profile!
ManyVids is basically my hub of all my naughty offerings. Mainly it’s my clip store, where I upload my porn videos for people to purchase. You can also buy a membership, which allows you to access all my videos for a certain amount of months, including any new uploads! I also have a store, where you can buy panties, dick reviews, polaroids, treats for me and photo sets! Through my ManyVids profile you can also place custom orders, give me tips, get my phone number, and more!
Go give some love to my videos if you have an account!