This month has been really hard for me friends. I’ve come to realize that I’ve been really depressed and low-energy throughout most of the summer, but August was especially hard on me. However, it ended up being my most social month, which I find interesting… I had a lot of fun throughout the brain fog, so here’s my fave things that kept me going!
Y’all I found my long lost We-Vibe Tango! I was in the middle of deep cleaning my room when I was flipping my mattress and found it floating on top of my box spring! I’m so happy to have it’s little rumbly powers back on my clit and in my life. Plus, it now completes my Anniversary Collection once again, and I no longer need to stare longingly at the empty space in the charging port.
The wonderful Zoe Lignon (Spectrum Boutique) made my dreams come through and sent me the Quickshot Vantage Compact Sleeve to review with my FWB!! It’s going to be my first review of a penis toy on my blog so I’m really excited about it. I’ve been masturbating to amateur porn of people using the Quickshot for a long while, so getting to use with my Daddy was definitely a fantasy fulfilled. (psss you can use REDHOT for 10% your entire order at Spectrum Boutique)
I received the wonderful Fun Factory Stronic Real from SheVibe to review, and I must say, it’s quickly become a fave of mine. I reviewed the Stronic Drei awhile back, which uses the same rocking technology but in a new skin. The Stronic Real is a semi-realistic shape, and for me, it’s much more enjoyable considering it’s simplicity! Look out for my review within the next couple of months.
My annual conference, the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit was this month! I had such a busy and fun time down in DC with my sex blogger peers. I’ll be writing a more detailed post about my trip soon!
My fave gays, Adam and Steve, put on a absolutely fabulous social event with QueerOuttaHamilton at Arcade, an arcade bar just off of Hess Village! It was really nice to attend an event where there were other things to do besides drinking and dancing. Arcade is aesthetic as hell too, so I hope to go back with a photographer for pics sometime soon.
Cheyenne and I (along with our buds Mike & Lisa) went to Wonderland! We had a super fun day walking around the park, riding roller coasters and taking pics.
I finally got to meet Vixen Vu, a cam babe from Toronto who I’ve been online mutuals with for awhile now. I ended up in Toronto for a meeting, and had some time to spare in between dinner with Kate, so I texted Vixen who left work early to come giggle over drinks with me. She invited me to Hanlan’s beach, a nude beach in Toronto, later in the week too! It was my first time going but it was an absolute blast!
I got to see my Daddy after a month of being away from him and oooohh boy was I happy to be in his arms and for his cock to be inside me again. I took a spontaneous 2am trip to see him at his place a neighboring town; I won’t take a 40 min Uber ride for just anyone but I will for him. When I got there we fooled around and fucked in a school park – a big fucket list item for moi. He bent me over against the wall of a portable classroom and had his way with me. We walked back to his place, fucked again, followed by the best cuddle session ever. Who knew head rubs, metal, coconut oil and pizza could go so well together? I like him.
I was interviewed by Vice with Vixen Vu and Luna Matatas on How to Be a Great Third in a Threesome! I was also interviewed on the FatChicksOnTop Podcast about sex writing and clip making while being a fat girl!
Carly of Dildo or Dildon’t wrote a piece on the fetishization of mixed raced people. “When you call a mixed Black POC “hot” because they are not fully Black, you are degrading and oppressing their Blackness while disrespecting the details of their identity. This shows up for many POC who are mixed Black like myself, but being “less” Black, but “enough” to make them an attractive novelty.” This piece is really powerful.
Alex of Sexology Bae wrote about her first Woodhull experience and it reminded me so much of my first time! She talks about imposter syndrome, accessibility, and how validating it is to be around people who understand you. She also won a LeWand from me, and wrote a review of using it as someone who’s new to wand vibes!
I really loved ‘Why DD/lg Works For Me” by Taryn (Ace In the Hole)! It’s both an informative and personal piece which dispels some myths and highlights reasons why Taryn (and others) are into DD/lg dynamics. “I get to feel cute, which I don’t normally get to feel in my day-to-day life as a fat woman.” was a line that resonated with me and my own submissive interests.
I bought a lil Fashion Nova haul and got it sent to my hotel in DC so I could skip customs charges. I haven’t bought a full piece bathing suit in probably 5 years, but I was drawn to the stylish plus size options that FN offers. I ended up getting a v neck suit with a LOT of side boob in White and a bisexual Jessica Rabbit sparkly dress!
I’ve been on the search for a good quality clear lip gloss to pair with lipsticks, and I finally found it! The Mac Lipglass in Clear is SO good, and adds a perfect amount of pout to all my dewy makeup looks.