CN: Erotic lactation, ageplay, ddlg, ABDL, adult nursing relationships, adult breastfeeding, hucow, pregnancy fetish, breast expansion
Editor’s note: I personally have not yet induced lactation. Coconut milk was used in the featured image.
Welcome to Got Milk? a new series I’m starting on all things related to erotic lactation! I’ve known I’ve had a breast milk fetish since I was a youngin but I’ve only recently started exploring what that looks like for me! I’ll be talking about my personal experiences more in later blog posts, but for now, here’s an introduction in why some people may be into erotic lactation.
Lactophilia is the scientific name for the breast milk fetish. Erotic lactation is fairly self-explanatory, but basically, it’s being sexually attracted to the creation, excretion and/or consumption of breast milk. Typically all three come hand-in-hand, and most lactophiliacs enjoy the idea or activity of suckling milk out of breasts (the receiver of the milk, typically a bottom). The giver of the milk (typically a top) can also have a breast milk fetish. Some people also enjoy both roles, like myself!
There’s a lot of other reasons why people partake in erotic lactation, whether it be an intersection with another kink (as listed below), or because the act of lactating is hot in itself. Here are some of the other kinks that may be reasons to why people enjoy erotic lactation beyond the act of milk coming out of someone’s nipples.
If you’ve heard of the Daddy kink, you’ve probably heard of ageplay! Ageplay is a super popular fetish, one where consenting adults roleplay as different ages. The most popular being Daddy Dom/Little girl (DDlg) dynamics, but ageplay pertains to a whole other group of people and dynamics, like mommy domme/little boy or adult babies. Any of these types of kinkers could also have lactation kinks, but erotic lactation does crossover with ADBL frequently, or relationships where a mother type figure is involved (for obvious reasons)!
Adult Nursing Relationships
One of the more popular erotic lactation subsets is Adult Nursing Relationships! ANR’s are nursing relationships between two adults (usually a couple) to increase intimacy. They can be done with or without one part of the pair lactating, and they’re not always sexual in nature. ANR’s are not the same as adult breastfeeding, which is the act itself and does not include the bond between ANR participants.
Hu-what? Hucow, or the human cow fetish, is a popular fetish that centres around erotic lactation, submission, and pet play, occasionally accompanied by objectification, humiliation/degradation, breeding fetishism and the hotwife fetish! Hucow is a complicated kink! In its simplest form, hucows are people who enjoy the idea of being milked and cared for as a cow would be. Much like other pet play kinks, the hucow practice has nothing to do with actual cows but involves roleplay. Erotic lactation is a big component to being a hucow but doesn’t necessarily need to be apart of all hucows practices.
As lactation commonly occurs with and due to pregnancy, pregnancy fetishists may also be involved in erotic lactation! Another straightforward fetish, a pregnancy fetish (also known as maiesiophilia) is where an individual is attracted to one or more stages of pregnancy; from insemination to childbirth and everything in between.
Breast expansion is a kink related to gigantism where people find it a turn on for someone’s breasts to grow, sometimes rather quickly to ridiculously large sizes. Natural breast expansion happens when people begin to induce lactation, so there’s a correlation between the two fetishes. Some people who enjoy erotic lactation like the breast growth aspect of the fetish.
There are a lot of other kinks that can intersect with lactophilia, but these are the most common ones from my research. If you yourself are into adult lactation, what kind are you into? If not, what do you find interesting about breast milk fetishism?